TRANSFORMATIVE READS

What the world now most needs is integrated, initiated men. Living for what they would die for. Look around you and tell me how many of...

For Men, Confrontation is water.  Without water, men die.  First a spiritual death.   Then a physical one.   True confrontation is...

Gossip destroys relationship and undermines community.  Long ago I committed to speak only positively about people behind their back. Or...

Knowledge is Empowerment. Below is a practical map to trauma and trauma healing. To start, you are born GOOD and into a GOOD universe.  ...

MEANWHILE in downtown Asheville... (Today)  Over Indian buffet . . .   I coach Jedi apprentice Astral Arigato in his question:   "How do...

The fear most resist  The pain most deny  When turned towards  Pushed into  Fully met  And embraced  Becomes an ecstasy  So ambrosic ...

A good coach gets results.  A Master Coach gives Liberation.  He is a teacher, a leader, and a friend.  He challenges when it is time to...

Men do not trust men   In ambiguity   and dispassion.  Men ARE intensity —  Purpose and Resolve.  Each man knows this.   And knows that ...

If you judge polarity you do not understand polarity.  Like gravity,   electromagnetism,   or the fact that there are two sexes and...

"Processing" is a process. It goes on and and on. And usually does not work. I never process with clients or encourage them to process...

When you see into the nature of another's delusion, you have no emotional charge.  When another's delusion elicits in you an emotional...

When I disrespect you,   I hurt myself.  When I allow you to disrespect me,   I hurt you.  The root of evil  Is disrespect.   It is the...

The most effective way to deepen your man  Into the integrity you desire,  Is to show him the impact of his actions  WITH YOUR BODY. ...

The new world is absent Masculinity. And rife with Toxic Femininity. This is mathematics. And this is what it looks like:   - Vanity and...

WHAT YOU ARE AVOIDING  IS YOUR KEY TO LIBERATION.   I grew up with an avoidant father.   Around me I saw a few truly brave and...

Men,  Wake up now.  If you wake up late,  And realize decades in   You have been hiding,  Lying,   Denying . . .  When you FINALLY DO...

Is the foundation  Of true foundation.  And true fulfillment.  When a family's structure  DIS-intregrates,  It is the dis-integration  ...

like Women.  See them,  Feel them,   Cherish them,  And they will Heal.  Do not try to change,   fix,  Or get anything —   This won’t...

Conflict is safe. It is the avoidance of conflict that is dangerous. I am extremely passionate about passionate fighting. And fighting...