Integral Family

Is the foundation 

Of true foundation. 

And true fulfillment. 

When a family's structure 

DIS-intregrates, 

It is the dis-integration  

of the family's Masculine. 

This only happens when one or more men 

Made a choice to ABDICATE 

their familial responsibilities. 

These include: 

- Keeping the family strong and well. 

- Holding a clear family vision. 

- Refining and leading the family to this vision.  

- Ensuring everyone's needs are met. 

- Solving family problems. 

- Resolving family conflicts. 

- Investing wealth in the family's health and long-term wellness. When I examine the families of the US and the Western world,  I see few. 

Many were families that have been compromised Addiction,  

Isolation,  

And conflict.

That can only happen 

via a Weakened Masculine. 

Masculinity rests on values,  

Virtues,  

Priorities -- 

Holding true WHAT IS  

No matter what.  

My Father dropped the ball and I bet yours did too.  

It is NOT their fault -- 

Western Men are emasculated AT BIRTH 

And throughout their lives  

Controlled. 

In order to maintain a system  

Of MAXIMUM extortion 

And MINIMAL rebellion. 

And strong men are the BONES of healthy family and strong families are the  HEART of healthy culture. 

That is because strong men hold what is right  

And say "no" to what is wrong.  

Strong men know this in their bones.  

Western men have fallen into the trap of "not knowing" anything. ESPECIALLY  ethical imperatives. 

This is now encouraged and bred in. 

When men do eventually have to stand in certainty, conviction, or justice, They are attacked from many sides  

Reprimanded — baf boy. 

They threaten the disease,  

The complicit insanity, 

And are told to get down and remain unclear.  

With this oppression online, 

Families stand little chance. 

And have no structure,  

No containment,  

No code. 

And no men.  

It is a colossal problem  

And no one's fault. 

AND, 

It is still our responsibility. 

And every man's responsibility. 

To get their family together. 

((As best they can)).  

This necessitates and is by no means limited to: 

- Confronting and resolving dynamics unhealthy and covert. 

- Instating and teaching respectful codes of conduct and communication. - Holding everyone accountable for their trauma-based, anti-life, harmful choices 

and actions, and leading them into their true loving potential that any family needs. - Correcting the course of the lineage and line. 

This requires time, patience, integrity, humility, practice, calibration, and recalibration, 

And most of all DEVOTION.  

Devotion is the original abdication -  

What the family's men exchanged for a quick fix to numb the pain. For the devoted man willing to take on the task, 

It requires a commitment to the mastery of  

Communication, 

Leadership,  

and TRAUMA -- 

A commitment to his own trauma work, 

And an embodiment of that terrain, 

So that he can help others. 

Trauma mastery is at many steps KEY to familial repair -- 

To help people feel, heal, and take actual responsibility from the most deep and embodied place. 

At 16 my father let the family fall apart.  

He abdicated responsibility. 

He decided he could not do it and so would not do it. 

And he went into addiction and isolation, 

Abuse and self-abuse, 

And repelled support from all sides.

As a result, everyone suffered. 

My younger brother spun out in a crisis of masculinity, As we watched our family's women spiral down  

in desperation, overwhelm,  

and aggression. 

After a decade of healing, 

Doing the work, 

I perceived the problem at the root 

And re-committed myself to the solution: 

Bringing the family together.  

It has not been easy.  

It hasn't even been worth it, (yet). 

And it is the RIGHT THING to do.  

It's what needs to happen.  

Any dysfunctional pattern continues until someone says ENOUGH. If you are reading this, my brother, 

THAT MAN IS YOU. 

Fully embrace your pain. 

Remember your heart's devotion. 

Re-commit yourself. 

Take inventory. 

Learn what you must.

Fulfill your ancestral promise, 

Be sincere and  

CLEAN UP WHAT YOU CAN. 

This is all you can do. 

And each day, 

This is more than enough. 

We have available the possibility of an ecstatic, intimate culture. It's what we're made for. And so worth dying for. I'm here for the New Culture.  

And here always  

As a brother.  

Love you.