Jedi Training

MEANWHILE in downtown Asheville...

(Today) 

Over Indian buffet . . .  

I coach Jedi apprentice Astral Arigato in his question:  

"How do I confront well? Men AND women?" 

I deluge and he drinks every drop. 

I come back from buffet seconds and he tells me, 

"Dude - 

That man over there - he's domineering that woman. 

They're in an interview and she has NO chance to speak. I feel her heart and want to support her. I want to confront him". 

I smile. 

A few attuned breaths and "oh yeah?", then: 

"Do it". 

He walks over, taps on the table,  

and tells the dude definitively,  

dominantly,  

and BEAUTIFULLY: 

"You should let her speak". 

The energy of the restaurant FLIPPED.  

This one, well-placed confrontation corrects the entire place.  Polarity returned. 

The man does not know what happened, and for some reason, the woman  apologizes to the man,

And magically she begins speaking. Fluently, fluidly. She does not stop. Her voice is rich, full, and beautiful. The man listens. 

This is the correct polarity.  

And my guy's move is an example of true dominance.  

Dominance = compassion + correction, from the heart. 

It is the Mode of Masculinity and keeps us in Service. 

How did this student know it was dominance and not domineering? (big  difference) 

He is attuned to Truth/God. 

And he listened to Truth/God's dominant command.  

(Men are God's subs). 

And a man's journey is unifying personal truth with Universal Truth.  Personal will with Universal Will. 

As a man you fine-tune by fucking up.  

Ideally with brothers who love and correct you through the necessary messy calibration process. 

Denying Command is denying Truth. 

For true Men denial is unacceptable because it hurts the Village Whole. If Astral was not attuned he could have started a fight.  

Instead, this woman was heard,  

This man was humbled,  

And Astral embodied new degrees of power and self-respect.  After he was LIT UP and wanted more. 

I smiled. 

"There'll be more". 

This is men's coaching and this is Field Work. It's a small example, and a sweet  one. 

And he rocked it. 

Thanks Astral.